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Ask the Sex Expert!

July 1, 2010

Do you think of yourself as an expert? Apparently Mr. Tweet thinks I’m an expert in Erotica – here’s the message he sent me a couple months ago: “Hi Adriana! You are invited to the Erotica community because members nominated you as an expert they’d love to hear from.”


Sounds enticing! I’m happy to claim being an expert on many aspects of sex and erotica – what turns me on, what fantasies I can’t resist, what I love to read – and these are the elements my husband and I take pains to put into the stories we write under our pen name Adriana Kraft. We hope you find them as entertaining and tantalizing as we do!

If you’re tempted to turn some of those fantasies into reality?? Hubby and I aren’t the experts here, and we don’t run an advice column, but we’ve found the perfect source for you: Ask Dan and Jennifer! Have you run into them? I found them on line when we were talking to friends about Swinging Games, our Extasy series on the Swing Lifestyle. I Googled some swing terms to demonstrate the range of what’s out there – and up popped a video of Dan and Jennifer explaining how one half of a married couple could start the conversation about swinging without being threatening or scaring the other partner into the next universe. Very nicely done, I might add!

So we thought it would be fun to give our readers a taste of some of the expertise Dan and Jennifer have to offer. Here’s one of my favorites: How to find your swinging comfort zone:


Here’s a little more about them, from their website: “Ask Dan & Jennifer is a very popular and respected Love & Sex web show, advice column, online magazine, and relationship support community.”

Their mission? “We will answer your questions openly, honestly, and without bias or judgment. Question Everything! Our mission is to help people create conscious relationships based on love and acceptance rather than fear, jealousy, anger, and ownership. It’s time to move on from outdated ideas about love and sex.” Sounds a lot like our mission, and we heartily applaud!

Check out some of their hottest topics:

How To Enhance Your Sex Life –

First Time Sex Tips – How To Lose Your Virginity In Style – 

A Little Sexual Tension Can Be Just What A Relationship Needs

1,001 Best Places to Have Sex #172: In the Closet at a Friend’s Party –

How To Give A Woman Her First Orgasm (Video) –

Fun Sex Games To Try With Your Partner –

Bondage Basics –  Including Video & Pics!!

One Way Successful Couples Make Love Last –  

Where to find Dan and Jennifer:

YouTube channel
Dan and Jennifer TV
Dan and Jennifer on Twitter 

Have fun and play safe!

8 Comments leave one →
  1. hotcha1 permalink
    July 24, 2010 3:06 pm


  2. gloria permalink
    July 25, 2010 8:03 am

    well it’s good to be an expert or at least thought to be on something lol

    well nice article keep up on that expertise and have fun

    Happy summer and don’t do anything to naughty lol

  3. adrianakraft permalink
    July 25, 2010 10:26 am

    Thanks, Gloria, I got a kick out of it!

  4. Carol L. permalink
    July 26, 2010 9:35 am

    lol I agree with Gloria, feels good there for awhile right ? But who wants the responsibility lol
    Great post.
    Carol L.

    • adrianakraft permalink
      July 30, 2010 4:08 pm

      too true – I’ll let Dan and Jennifer be the advice experts, I’ll try to just be the expert on writing erotic romance!

  5. July 30, 2010 11:17 am

    I feel that it is so right that people are comfortable with their own sexuality and share that confidence with their partners. What a great post and will definitely have to look up Dan & Jennifer for more answers.

    • adrianakraft permalink
      July 30, 2010 4:10 pm

      Thanks, Joanne, agree! I’m not sure there’s anything Dan and Jennifer don’t cover -probably far more than we’ll ever put in a book!


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