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Better Sex for Everyone!

September 1, 2010

If that title sounds silly to you, keep reading. How many of you have heard of The Sinclair Institute and Neither had we. But turning forty (not gonna say when!) was a watershed transition in our personal lives, and the possibility of discreet help for libido, getting the juices going and increasing frequency rather than risk losing it all led us to a (then) tiny enterprise that offered resources for “Great Sex Over Forty.” Sure sounded good to me!

We ordered our first video. I’d watched porn before, so this wasn’t my first experience with naked bodies doing hot stuff on screen, but it’s hard to describe the difference when who you’re watching is just like you: middle aged, imperfect bodies being relaxed and comfortable and having a good time sexually. Oh, and looking like they were really in love with each other, too. I could identify.

Would my husband and I be writing erotic romance with juicy sex scenes aimed at arousing readers of either sex if we hadn’t found the Sinclair Institute? It’s hard to say, but we sure needed a jump start from somewhere. And that’s why we’re writing this blog today – with all the explicit and titillating hot sex thrown in our faces by advertisers, media, movies and yes erotica writers, there are still a lot of peeps out there who aren’t getting enough (or, equally troubling, aren’t wanting enough) and don’t know how to fix the problem.

Needless to say both our personal life and our fiction heated back up with a little help from the resources we accessed, and I don’t think either of us has ever looked back. We’ve shared this story at the risk of some embarrassment in hopes others who find libido waning or technique getting stale won’t be too embarrassed to seek similar resources. is a great place to start. AskDanandJennifer is another one, and we’ll blog about it another day. And of course the two halves of Adriana hope our books provide similarly effective inspiration – as TwoLips Reviews remarked, they’re meant to be read with “either a partner or a bucket of toys close at hand.” Oh, and where to get those great toys? Here’s a link to a discount for first time customers at – you guessed it –!


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8 Comments leave one →
  1. hotcha1 permalink
    September 1, 2010 8:12 pm


  2. hotcha1 permalink
    September 1, 2010 8:13 pm


    • adrianakraft permalink
      September 2, 2010 7:26 am

      Agree! The house was still full of kids at 40…

  3. September 2, 2010 12:44 am

    I loved your post. I recently turned 41, b/f 40 and we have been together for 8 years. With schedules, kids, etc. you seem to put your “intimate” life on the back burner and it’s sad. You can be too familiar/comfortable with your other half sometimes and it tends to make the flame dim. I’m looking forward to checking it out. Thank you again. It’s greatly appreciated. Hugs, T.

    • adrianakraft permalink
      September 2, 2010 7:30 am

      Thanks so much! You’re right, it’s hard to set aside special time in that stage – busy schedules and lack of privacy. I think that was taking its toll on us then, too. But we never gave up!

  4. September 7, 2010 7:07 pm

    Thanks for the kind words. You guys are exactly who we want to help!

  5. Debby permalink
    September 11, 2010 8:18 am

    I loved this post. NEver too late for some sex.

  6. adrianakraft permalink
    September 11, 2010 8:58 am

    Thanks, Debby – hafta add, and, never too late to learn new tricks and spice things up!

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